Psychology is a funny thing!
Why? Just think about it what do you know about Psychology weather you're a student, graduate, someone who has heard of it somewhere or just interested in the subject.
Ask yourself what do you realy know about it?
For me, my experience of studying it and my knowledge after, to be honest hasnt really changed... I am still confused!
OK where am I headed with this... to be honest I have been struggling with where I am headed and how am I to get there... Psychology as a degree is a funny thing, you cant really get far with it.
As with many degrees the current climate for graduates dont look so promising, even if you have a first class degree (which by the way I dont have). Things will still be hard....or do they have to be?
Psychology, does it have a place in the world when ts just as degree level?... JUST at undergraduate degree level? It doesnt sound like much to me now, now after around 4 years after graduation, I look back and think how far have I really come with my degree. Can I really look myself in the mirror, can I really look at my CV and say, "yes doing that degree was worth it"?
In fact can YOU?
Can you justify those 3 or 4 years at university all that money spent, and say... "Yes those years were worth it"...
If you can or if you cant... tell me how you have come to where you are...
How succesful are you... do you think?
How has it changed you?
More importantly as I think about mine...what is your next step?
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Saturday, September 12, 2009
Islamic Counselling in London
Assalamu alaykum
This sounds interesting...
ACCREDITED ISLAMIC COUNSELLING TRAINING (C London)
We are pleased to announce the availability of places on our part time VRQ Level 2 Certificate in Islamic Counselling. The course will be running from 24th September 2009 to January 14th 2010 and will be based near Edgware Road in London. These courses have been attended by teachers, scholars, social workers and counsellors in the past, all of whom have found them to be beneficial. If you are interested, do contact us at your earliest convenience as spaces are limited. Applications must reach us by 18th September 2009.
Our training is experiential. This involves learning by doing, which means that trainees are clients for each others' work in the development of their skills and knowledge. This work is
supported by traditional tuition, reading and assignments. Trainees are required to develop a portfolio of evidence that demonstrates their competence. Portfolios include documentary
evidence such as learning reviews, assignments and tutor observations.
For further information please contact:
E-mail: stephenmay@mac. com
Website: http://www.abraronl ine.net/en/ islamiccounselli ng.pdf
This sounds interesting...
ACCREDITED ISLAMIC COUNSELLING TRAINING (C London)
We are pleased to announce the availability of places on our part time VRQ Level 2 Certificate in Islamic Counselling. The course will be running from 24th September 2009 to January 14th 2010 and will be based near Edgware Road in London. These courses have been attended by teachers, scholars, social workers and counsellors in the past, all of whom have found them to be beneficial. If you are interested, do contact us at your earliest convenience as spaces are limited. Applications must reach us by 18th September 2009.
Our training is experiential. This involves learning by doing, which means that trainees are clients for each others' work in the development of their skills and knowledge. This work is
supported by traditional tuition, reading and assignments. Trainees are required to develop a portfolio of evidence that demonstrates their competence. Portfolios include documentary
evidence such as learning reviews, assignments and tutor observations.
For further information please contact:
E-mail: stephenmay@mac. com
Website: http://www.abraronl ine.net/en/ islamiccounselli ng.pdf
Saturday, August 22, 2009
Make It Different
From Muhammad Alshareef
ITS ON!
As salamu alaykum
You know what I'm talking about...Ramadan: It's ON!
We had so many things recently; Ramadan Ilminar, releasing the digital HeartWheelJournal, and then the printed version.
So now, who are YOU like?
Muslim A) In full-throttle Ramadan mode
Muslim B) Already started Ramadan *without* a plan
Whichever one you saw yourself as, I've got something for you.
...HeartWheel Journal ONLINE
http://www.heartwheeljournal.com/
Not just digital pdf.
A super software to do the HeartWheel Journal online.
http://www.heartwheeljournal.com/
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Do this right away:
1) Create account, still Fr-ee: http://www.heartwheeljournal.com/ (20 seconds)
2) Watch the WalkThrough video (2 mins)
2) Start from Day 1 (even if you're late, just start)
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With best wishes to see you succeed at the highest level!
- Muhammad Alshareef
PS: Be the first to experience the HeartWheel Journal.
http://www.heartwheeljournal.com/
PPS: Watch these "WalkThrough Videos" for the online and printed HeartWheel Journal by Nahyan, one of our DiscoverU LifeCoaches.
http://www.youtube.com/view_play_list?p=6FC244019EAC9552&sort_field=title
ITS ON!
As salamu alaykum
You know what I'm talking about...Ramadan: It's ON!
We had so many things recently; Ramadan Ilminar, releasing the digital HeartWheelJournal, and then the printed version.
So now, who are YOU like?
Muslim A) In full-throttle Ramadan mode
Muslim B) Already started Ramadan *without* a plan
Whichever one you saw yourself as, I've got something for you.
...HeartWheel Journal ONLINE
http://www.heartwheeljournal.com/
Not just digital pdf.
A super software to do the HeartWheel Journal online.
http://www.heartwheeljournal.com/
=============
Do this right away:
1) Create account, still Fr-ee: http://www.heartwheeljournal.com/ (20 seconds)
2) Watch the WalkThrough video (2 mins)
2) Start from Day 1 (even if you're late, just start)
=============
With best wishes to see you succeed at the highest level!
- Muhammad Alshareef
PS: Be the first to experience the HeartWheel Journal.
http://www.heartwheeljournal.com/
PPS: Watch these "WalkThrough Videos" for the online and printed HeartWheel Journal by Nahyan, one of our DiscoverU LifeCoaches.
http://www.youtube.com/view_play_list?p=6FC244019EAC9552&sort_field=title
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Anger Management - 'An Islamic Approach'

Anger Management
An Islamic Psycho - Spiritual Approach
Anger is a powerful emotion. It can be used either in productive or counter-productive ways. It can lengthen or shorten our lives. Anger is a natural human emotion that everyone experiences at one time or another.
Examples of common factors that can make people angry are:
• Losing someone you love (grief)
• Sexual frustration
• Being tired, hungry or in pain
• Physical withdrawal from certain medicines or drugs
• Conditions, like pre-menstrual syndrome (PMS)
Anger management is a form of counselling to help you cope with any angry feelings you may have that affect your health, work, social behaviour or personal relationships. This course on 'Anger Management' shall focus on psycho – spiritual approaches to anger with the Islamic theoretical aspect using Imam al-Ghazali's ‘Diagnosis of Anger’ and others, and practical steps in dealing with anger.
Special guest speaker includes Cici Collins [BAAM], a consultant dealing with anger.
The Prophet [s] said, "The strong is not the one who overcomes the people by his strength, but the strong is the one who controls himself while in anger." [Al-Bukhari]
Who should attend this course:
• Any person suffering from anger and rage
• Front-line employees/staff
• Parents who have difficulty dealing with their angry children
• Anyone who knows of someone suffering from anger issues
• Teachers who need to find creative ways of managing disruption in the classroom
• Health and care professionals
INSTRUCTORS
Dr. Mamoun Mobayed MD, DPM, MSc , Psychiatrist
Cici Collins Consultant [BAAM], Life Coach, EFT Practitioner, Cici Collins was Channel 4's Celebrity Wife Swap consultant
DATE Saturday 18th July 2009
TIME 9.00am – 6.30pm
VENUE Ebrahim College, 80 Greenfield Road, London, E1 1EJ
(behind East London Mosque [ELM]) (nearest tube station: Aldgate East and Whitechapel)
REGISTER Online at www.iidr.org
INFORMATION T: 07092 813 541
E: info@iidr.org
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Future Focussed plus dua!
Assalamu alaykum!
I just wanted to share this with you, a great future focussed hadith and dua which was e-mailed to me...
((مَا مِنْ فَجْرِ يَوْمٍ يَنْشَقُّ إلاَّ وَيُنَادِي مَلَكَان, يَا ابْنَ آدَمَ أنَا يَوْمٌ جَدِيْدٌ, وَعَلي عَمَلِكَ شَهِيْدٌ, فَتَزَوَّدْ مِنِّي فَإنِّي لا أعُوْدُ إلى يَوْمِ الْقِيَامَة))
“Not a single dawn breaks out without two angels calling out: ‘Oh Son of Adam, I am a new day and I witness your actions, so make the best out of me because I will never come back till the Day of Judgement’” (Al Ma’thur of the Prophet (saw))
Subhanallah, what better drive is that then that! To be reminded that today has gone, another sun has set on a day which we can never bring back. If we were able to reply this day what would we be proud of…? What would we change…?
Tomorrow, Alhamdulilah is another day; I pray Allah gives us the life to live to see that day, so we can implement anything we learnt form today… Ensure our actions are the best; our outcome is the finest, so that our judgment is successful.
"اللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلْ يَوْمَنَا حَيرًا مِنْ أمْسِنَا وَجْعَلَ غَدَنَا خَيْرًا مِنْ يَوْمِنَا"
“O! Allah, make our today better than our yesterday, and make our tomorrow better than today”
So if one of your action points was to learn a new dua... how’s this one to learn? :)
Ma'salam
I just wanted to share this with you, a great future focussed hadith and dua which was e-mailed to me...
((مَا مِنْ فَجْرِ يَوْمٍ يَنْشَقُّ إلاَّ وَيُنَادِي مَلَكَان, يَا ابْنَ آدَمَ أنَا يَوْمٌ جَدِيْدٌ, وَعَلي عَمَلِكَ شَهِيْدٌ, فَتَزَوَّدْ مِنِّي فَإنِّي لا أعُوْدُ إلى يَوْمِ الْقِيَامَة))
“Not a single dawn breaks out without two angels calling out: ‘Oh Son of Adam, I am a new day and I witness your actions, so make the best out of me because I will never come back till the Day of Judgement’” (Al Ma’thur of the Prophet (saw))
Subhanallah, what better drive is that then that! To be reminded that today has gone, another sun has set on a day which we can never bring back. If we were able to reply this day what would we be proud of…? What would we change…?
Tomorrow, Alhamdulilah is another day; I pray Allah gives us the life to live to see that day, so we can implement anything we learnt form today… Ensure our actions are the best; our outcome is the finest, so that our judgment is successful.
"اللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلْ يَوْمَنَا حَيرًا مِنْ أمْسِنَا وَجْعَلَ غَدَنَا خَيْرًا مِنْ يَوْمِنَا"
“O! Allah, make our today better than our yesterday, and make our tomorrow better than today”
So if one of your action points was to learn a new dua... how’s this one to learn? :)
Ma'salam
Friday, June 26, 2009
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Special Offer... free cake anyone?
Assalamu alaykum all!
Jazakillah khair to those who have taken advantage of the free 30 min session!
And if you are reading this and haven’t yet had a session, this is because I know you will soon, Inshallah and just wanted to let you know the special offer.
What's the Offer?
I only have a week left on my offer of free sessions and have 30 spaces left.
So what I will do is for 3 referrals you guys give me, you will receive a free MyBaked Cakes 10” cake! MyBaked Cakes is the new cake business that I and my family are setting up; we have a generation of cake baking behind us.
You can see some of them on my facebook page
http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=118130&id=507254609&l=de9df16fd6
What You Need To Do
So What do you need to do to get one of these 10” cakes for free?
1) Ensured you have had the free 30 min session yourself
2) Fill the online survey
3) Refer at least 3 sisters to myself (make sure they mention your name!)
4) Your referees complete the survey
5) Eat your cake, baked just the way you like it! :D
Offer ends 26th June 2009
Ma’salam
Sara Bhatti
DiscoverU Lifecoach
07888697639
And if you’re a brother reading this, never fear you can take advantage of this too, all you have to do is instead of referring 3 sisters, you will have to refer 4 sisters! :)
Jazakillah khair to those who have taken advantage of the free 30 min session!
And if you are reading this and haven’t yet had a session, this is because I know you will soon, Inshallah and just wanted to let you know the special offer.
What's the Offer?
I only have a week left on my offer of free sessions and have 30 spaces left.
So what I will do is for 3 referrals you guys give me, you will receive a free MyBaked Cakes 10” cake! MyBaked Cakes is the new cake business that I and my family are setting up; we have a generation of cake baking behind us.
You can see some of them on my facebook page
http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=118130&id=507254609&l=de9df16fd6
What You Need To Do
So What do you need to do to get one of these 10” cakes for free?
1) Ensured you have had the free 30 min session yourself
2) Fill the online survey
3) Refer at least 3 sisters to myself (make sure they mention your name!)
4) Your referees complete the survey
5) Eat your cake, baked just the way you like it! :D
Offer ends 26th June 2009
Ma’salam
Sara Bhatti
DiscoverU Lifecoach
07888697639
And if you’re a brother reading this, never fear you can take advantage of this too, all you have to do is instead of referring 3 sisters, you will have to refer 4 sisters! :)
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